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Of you want to try ass play, then go for it. It takes practice and can time/understanding. Ruined orgasms are probably a much easier way, and what we practice. However I'll say, even ruined orgasms have some level of satisfaction.
I’ve found prostate orgasms much better than ruined at ramping up denial while still giving release. I’ve only had one and I didn’t expect it to happen as I had been attempting to deny myself for 3 weeks and it hadn’t even been 5 days yet. I was laying stomach down with my penis pointed down between my legs. I was using a toy I had experimented with before but this time I found the spot I knew to be my prostate and at one point I just pressed down as hard as I could for like 30 seconds straight and like at least 6 ounces of almost completely clear cum just shot out without me almost noticing, I was just left shaking there on my bed and ended up being so horny I humped my bed to 2 back to back orgasms which I had never done. I can’t imagine being put back in denial after that experience, if all prostate orgasms are like that you’ll be subjecting him to what can only be described as a warm crime
It depends on whether your partner is into ass play. Prostate milking is extremely famous in sissy circles where they call it the "sissygasm".
I'd like to add that this practice isn't solely a sissy thing, and everyone can enjoy it. It's become pretty common these days. Again, depends on your sub.
He's requested it quite a bit and we've dabbled but I don't feel like an expert by any means. I was under the impression the sissygasm thing was more of an anal pleasure means rather than a limited pleasure milking. I want to stretch the boundaries of his denial (safely) so that's why the prostate milking is of interest as, from what I read doesn't result in any sort of orgasmic stimulation, but still keeps him healthy.
Some people can totally achieve prostate orgasm. I've heard that it's different from how anyone with a penis would normally orgasm. During prostate ejaculation the muscles in the prostate contract and forcefully press the fluid that has been stored in the prostate out into the urethra. This causes the fluid and the sperm cells, together with fluid from other glands, to combine to form semen, which is then released.
If you're looking for a way to safely empty the balls without it feeling like a "traditional" orgasm, prostate milking is the solution. It can be highly pleasurable, though.
Actually the above comment is not correct. *Prostate milking does not empty the balls* unless the guy is brought to ejaculation. With a digit or two you can milk the prostate which is a separate fluid than the testicles. It doesn't need to involve an orgasm but it can lead to one. Obviously if orgasm is reached the testicles will most likely also be relieved. Ejaculation is a combination of both the fluid from the prostate and the fluid form the testicles.
It's more important for the prostate to be relived for possible health concerns than it is for the testicles.
Now that we've addressed the prostate, if you want to relieve the testicles there's orgasm and then a ruined orgasm. A ruined orgasm is more tricky to administer than a prostate milking. A prostate milking is no more difficult than penetrating your partner with a digit and stroking the prostate (bend your finger up and towards you if he is facing you—much like the female G spot) with a windshield wiper side to side motion.
A ruined orgasm can be achieved when he's right at the very edge and then stopping stimulation. A really skilled operator can count slowly past 10 before cum starts oozing out of the penis.
I'm here if you have questions.
I enjoy performing prostate milking myself, but I usually do it by pushing on the prostate through the taint. You can also stimulate the vagus nerve there. Add a little lube and make sure your nails are trimmed and it can be a lot of fun without the cleanup 👌
I think you wanted to write above? “Is it worth my time?” Prostate milking can be a time consuming process. It is also psychologically powerful. Draining him without the pleasure of an orgasm. Something edge play or ruined orgasm still does.
If you want to really alter his mind? I say yes to this process. A vibrator inserted into the anus touching the prostate can be used. To get him drained or close. You could finish the process yourself too. Being milked this way is very frustrating and emotionally powerful.
As a sub I can highly recommend it. My domme and I made the decision a while ago to severely restrict any stimulation to my dick and at the same time we started exploring prostate play along with pegging. It took a few months of denial but now I can reliably cum from prostate stimulation and its totally changed how I think of sex. Explore, have some fun and don't be put off when you don't get results straight away.
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Of you want to try ass play, then go for it. It takes practice and can time/understanding. Ruined orgasms are probably a much easier way, and what we practice. However I'll say, even ruined orgasms have some level of satisfaction.
I’ve found prostate orgasms much better than ruined at ramping up denial while still giving release. I’ve only had one and I didn’t expect it to happen as I had been attempting to deny myself for 3 weeks and it hadn’t even been 5 days yet. I was laying stomach down with my penis pointed down between my legs. I was using a toy I had experimented with before but this time I found the spot I knew to be my prostate and at one point I just pressed down as hard as I could for like 30 seconds straight and like at least 6 ounces of almost completely clear cum just shot out without me almost noticing, I was just left shaking there on my bed and ended up being so horny I humped my bed to 2 back to back orgasms which I had never done. I can’t imagine being put back in denial after that experience, if all prostate orgasms are like that you’ll be subjecting him to what can only be described as a warm crime
It depends on whether your partner is into ass play. Prostate milking is extremely famous in sissy circles where they call it the "sissygasm". I'd like to add that this practice isn't solely a sissy thing, and everyone can enjoy it. It's become pretty common these days. Again, depends on your sub.
He's requested it quite a bit and we've dabbled but I don't feel like an expert by any means. I was under the impression the sissygasm thing was more of an anal pleasure means rather than a limited pleasure milking. I want to stretch the boundaries of his denial (safely) so that's why the prostate milking is of interest as, from what I read doesn't result in any sort of orgasmic stimulation, but still keeps him healthy.
Some people can totally achieve prostate orgasm. I've heard that it's different from how anyone with a penis would normally orgasm. During prostate ejaculation the muscles in the prostate contract and forcefully press the fluid that has been stored in the prostate out into the urethra. This causes the fluid and the sperm cells, together with fluid from other glands, to combine to form semen, which is then released. If you're looking for a way to safely empty the balls without it feeling like a "traditional" orgasm, prostate milking is the solution. It can be highly pleasurable, though.
Thank you. I'll consider this as I continue to learn!
Actually the above comment is not correct. *Prostate milking does not empty the balls* unless the guy is brought to ejaculation. With a digit or two you can milk the prostate which is a separate fluid than the testicles. It doesn't need to involve an orgasm but it can lead to one. Obviously if orgasm is reached the testicles will most likely also be relieved. Ejaculation is a combination of both the fluid from the prostate and the fluid form the testicles. It's more important for the prostate to be relived for possible health concerns than it is for the testicles. Now that we've addressed the prostate, if you want to relieve the testicles there's orgasm and then a ruined orgasm. A ruined orgasm is more tricky to administer than a prostate milking. A prostate milking is no more difficult than penetrating your partner with a digit and stroking the prostate (bend your finger up and towards you if he is facing you—much like the female G spot) with a windshield wiper side to side motion. A ruined orgasm can be achieved when he's right at the very edge and then stopping stimulation. A really skilled operator can count slowly past 10 before cum starts oozing out of the penis. I'm here if you have questions.
Very true
And I think it’s very healthy for older men.
Not common enough!!!
Are you keeping him in longterm chastity/orgasm denial? Is that why you’re mainly focused on prostate milking?
I enjoy performing prostate milking myself, but I usually do it by pushing on the prostate through the taint. You can also stimulate the vagus nerve there. Add a little lube and make sure your nails are trimmed and it can be a lot of fun without the cleanup 👌
I think you wanted to write above? “Is it worth my time?” Prostate milking can be a time consuming process. It is also psychologically powerful. Draining him without the pleasure of an orgasm. Something edge play or ruined orgasm still does. If you want to really alter his mind? I say yes to this process. A vibrator inserted into the anus touching the prostate can be used. To get him drained or close. You could finish the process yourself too. Being milked this way is very frustrating and emotionally powerful.
Definitely use a glove this helps
As a sub I can highly recommend it. My domme and I made the decision a while ago to severely restrict any stimulation to my dick and at the same time we started exploring prostate play along with pegging. It took a few months of denial but now I can reliably cum from prostate stimulation and its totally changed how I think of sex. Explore, have some fun and don't be put off when you don't get results straight away.