A lot of people are intimidated by beauty and/or the gender they’re attracted to. Since I’ve seen that movie, I’m assuming he was a bit awkward, which is totally normal; it just means he likes you and that’s great if you feel the same way about him.
Probably just regretting not being more forward. Seems like at this point with his lack of dating experience he couldn’t read the room and was confused by what to do next or anything for that matter. It seems that if you like him you are the dominant person in that situation going forward. Good luck!
you're so right.. today was our third date and i had to initiate kissing him and holding his hands lol Im not confident myself but i feel like if i dont initiate wouldn't do anything 😭
Yea so basically given that he was happy it all happened, he's just apologizing for not being confident enough to read social cues hence "austism" but in regards to a romantic setting, I.e. you wanted to hold his hand & kiss but he was having trouble being sure of it. Long story short he's head over heels for you.
So I think I understand where this guys coming from. My second girlfriend in college deliberately sat by me in a class every day, came to every party we threw, and then one day was just like “so you know you can grab my ass if you want.”
Some men, myself included, need the signs to be very clear in the beginning because we don’t want to make a woman feel uncomfortable. Not to say we don’t want to make a move, just to say that we’re very bad with subtlety.
You probably won’t be pushing forever, but probably got the very beginning most certainly.
So how You fell about it afterwards? Usally woman wants man to take lead. I belive he likes you and you him so he feels good with your actions. But how do you feel?
He's just stating that he's inexperienced romantically and he isn't good at reading cues or boundaries.
Until more defined labels are attached to you guys (*if*) he'll likely fail to read the room and won't initiate anything physical.
I think it's cute - he clearly like you a lot or he wouldn't be so worried about fucking it up.
His self esteem ain't the best and he doesn't trust his game. Either been hurt too many times or he's a lil inexperienced. If he ain't hurting or making you feel like shit it's probably an innocent case of nerves
He's probably just apologizing for being awkward.
A lot of people are intimidated by beauty and/or the gender they’re attracted to. Since I’ve seen that movie, I’m assuming he was a bit awkward, which is totally normal; it just means he likes you and that’s great if you feel the same way about him.
Exactly this. I would take it as a compliment OP!
Probably just regretting not being more forward. Seems like at this point with his lack of dating experience he couldn’t read the room and was confused by what to do next or anything for that matter. It seems that if you like him you are the dominant person in that situation going forward. Good luck!
you're so right.. today was our third date and i had to initiate kissing him and holding his hands lol Im not confident myself but i feel like if i dont initiate wouldn't do anything 😭
Yea so basically given that he was happy it all happened, he's just apologizing for not being confident enough to read social cues hence "austism" but in regards to a romantic setting, I.e. you wanted to hold his hand & kiss but he was having trouble being sure of it. Long story short he's head over heels for you.
This, just this * 1000. This guy reminds me of me all over 🤦♀️🤦♂️
So I think I understand where this guys coming from. My second girlfriend in college deliberately sat by me in a class every day, came to every party we threw, and then one day was just like “so you know you can grab my ass if you want.” Some men, myself included, need the signs to be very clear in the beginning because we don’t want to make a woman feel uncomfortable. Not to say we don’t want to make a move, just to say that we’re very bad with subtlety. You probably won’t be pushing forever, but probably got the very beginning most certainly.
So how You fell about it afterwards? Usally woman wants man to take lead. I belive he likes you and you him so he feels good with your actions. But how do you feel?
You may want to try telling him what you'd like him to do, if you're not wanting to initiate that is.
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Stfu
Or he’s autistic and struggles to read social cues, not sure how that would make him a “beta” male
I would say feel free to tell him that. You made some moves, which you can do from the to time, but you also want him to make moves.
He is probably aware that he doesn't read /pick up on romantic ques very well and wants you to know that it isn't due to lack of interest.
He's just stating that he's inexperienced romantically and he isn't good at reading cues or boundaries. Until more defined labels are attached to you guys (*if*) he'll likely fail to read the room and won't initiate anything physical. I think it's cute - he clearly like you a lot or he wouldn't be so worried about fucking it up.
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Great question to ask, but I would 100% ask it of him too and see where the conversation heads.
He likes you and is apologizing that you had to initiate.
Inverts do this
inverts?
Lol, I must have misspelled introvert and my autocorrect made it invert, lol
His self esteem ain't the best and he doesn't trust his game. Either been hurt too many times or he's a lil inexperienced. If he ain't hurting or making you feel like shit it's probably an innocent case of nerves
You're overthinking it
You need to ask him what that means
Oof this is a fucked thing to say 😬
He insulted adam demamp
He insulted adam demamp