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On one hand it was a good responsible move on his part to cancel if he's too drunk to make it, on the other hand I don't like him blaming others for having drunk more than he should have. They "pressured" him into it?
I'd just await events, the fact that he didn't try to make new plans while drunk is ok, but I'd be cautious about the possibility that drinking may be a bigger part of his life than it ought to be, blaming others for his shortcomings is an unwholesome sign too.
I think it is the right thing to do, after all he hasn't shown you much consideration.
Maybe he will take the hint and move on without contacting you again with lame excuses.
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On one hand it was a good responsible move on his part to cancel if he's too drunk to make it, on the other hand I don't like him blaming others for having drunk more than he should have. They "pressured" him into it? I'd just await events, the fact that he didn't try to make new plans while drunk is ok, but I'd be cautious about the possibility that drinking may be a bigger part of his life than it ought to be, blaming others for his shortcomings is an unwholesome sign too.
fair enough, do you think I was right in not responding to the apology?
I think it is the right thing to do, after all he hasn't shown you much consideration. Maybe he will take the hint and move on without contacting you again with lame excuses.
don’t respond, he doesn’t deserve it. i’d distance myself from him tbh
Probably forgot you already it probably also was a decent looking guy I bet