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As frustrating as it may seem, let her come to you. Let her text or call you first or expand the conversation first. You dont know what she’s dealing with and if you press it, you’ll potentially blow it with her.
Also, youre not at a stage where you are exclusive so have a date or two with other women. Your interaction with her will be a lot different when you know you have options. She will sense it and act accordingly if she’s really into you.
Yeah that’s what I definitely have been doing and she texts me everyday just not what you would expect if someone was interested in you. I’ve been seeing other females in that time because I am not exclusive and it’s like I can see other females but I know I really want her you know.
Just remember, relationships change over time and so do priorities. You might not be so smitten with her a year or so down the road…or maybe you will.
Your big dopamine and serotonin hits from those engaging conversations are having you yearn for more connection. It’s a patience game so try your best to temper your emotions. Pro tip—jack off before you text or call her; let some of that pent up energy out. Lol
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As frustrating as it may seem, let her come to you. Let her text or call you first or expand the conversation first. You dont know what she’s dealing with and if you press it, you’ll potentially blow it with her. Also, youre not at a stage where you are exclusive so have a date or two with other women. Your interaction with her will be a lot different when you know you have options. She will sense it and act accordingly if she’s really into you.
Yeah that’s what I definitely have been doing and she texts me everyday just not what you would expect if someone was interested in you. I’ve been seeing other females in that time because I am not exclusive and it’s like I can see other females but I know I really want her you know.
Just remember, relationships change over time and so do priorities. You might not be so smitten with her a year or so down the road…or maybe you will. Your big dopamine and serotonin hits from those engaging conversations are having you yearn for more connection. It’s a patience game so try your best to temper your emotions. Pro tip—jack off before you text or call her; let some of that pent up energy out. Lol
😂😂😂 I will definitely try that out but you are so right they definitely change over time. We will see what happens appreciate the advice
If you have more options let it know that she ain’t all that. If you have no options pretend like you got options
I mean I always have options,unless we say we are exclusive I always have other females to talk to because of situations like this