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wezeal

Decent ppl are harder to find that I agree with


hellovenus9

You and everyone in the comments just proved why you don't get matched 💀


wezeal

Well then you haven't done any reading or any research into dating apps dating apps are 3/4 of them are all men even a good chunk 15% of the women are men pre tending to be women of the whatever amount of men that are actually on dating apps only 5 to 15% of them can even get a response from a woman dating apps are designed specifically for the hottest of hot to get what they want or for rich people to get what they want they are not designed for average Joe's to be able to find a woman 99% of women will swipe left on 95% of men look your statistics up I mean myself I've been using dating apps for over 4 years and the only quality human being I've come in contact with are people that I meet on the street


Ok_Grocery_2464

Really? Do dating apps have a selection of the most disgusting weird sexual shit done to men that look in distress ? This is idiotic just a pornrotted brain could say something that stupid


Odd-Delivery-1550

Yeah, but it also plays into there egos. Alot (not all) women just want attention


CrippledPeasant1

It's like their mindless repetitive Multi-Player game that they keep playing some wins some losses like IRL . But on "Ranked Matchmaking" XDDDD , the competition forces the majority to only be able to play with same level people .


Simple-Leader6501

Most men know women are very hard to deal with high value men lie to get the best women. The average Joe goes on pornhub


CrippledPeasant1

Yeah. People are dissatisfied with their same level, so it's only normal for people who want to co-op play their life with someone else to improve public face ( studying, fitness, manipulation, lying etc... ) it's only proper to do so isn't it . The "high value men lie to get the best women" gets me thinking though, i would assume they would just filter the "bad / average / ok/ worth trying 1 date " women just like how women filter men by just ignoring them ??


wezeal

Any decent man looking for a decent woman wouldn't be on dating app in the first place The only thing on those dating apps is a bunch of women trying to catch more bodies than a New York subway any decent man looking for a real relationship tries to meet women in the real world it's got decency and knows how to approach a woman and she turns him down he accepts it and walks on and I hate to say it but with the attitude you talk you probably do get around a lot but that's ur choice no judgement.


Puzzleheaded-Tree-13

There’s still decent people that use dating apps. Especially young people that have grown up with dating app use being more normal. Also some people live lifestyles that make it hard to meet people organically.


wezeal

And just so we're clear those kids all growing up on these dating apps are all just trying to f*** each other and move to the next person none of them are trying to have real honest relationships they're all s******* on each other ghosting each other to have no concept of respect or decency towards another person they don't even seem to really have any moral grounds to stand on it's mostly all about self-centered self-gratification So yeah dating apps aren't the best things especially for older men that aren't like eight nines and tens cuz you're not going to get anything from those and it doesn't matter how old a woman is or how desperate she is she's only looking at the same statistics that everybody else is


Puzzleheaded-Tree-13

I agree with you for the most part, but my point is there’s still decent people that resort to dating apps.


wezeal

Yes that's true ppl do heck I have profiles I just don't use them . They are more for options for women then men. But u r correct the younger ppl do use these but it's just as hard for the young men as it is for the old look in here bunch of guys wondering why they can't match .I don't disagree that ppl do use them just not normal everyday ppl they mostly just kill ur self esteem as a man.its like women don't even search or read the messages just look for the hottest or richest guy they can so yes while u can it only works for women and rich or hot young men