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you’re emotionally distressed over a guy who you haven’t even tried to reach out to after he didn’t respond to your last text which was a self admitted conversation ender???
Text him lol what
Just date other people. You didn’t even date this guy, you effectively never really even truly knew him. You are obsessed with the sex and with the projection you have constructed in your head about what it would be like to date him. Which honestly can be way worse than a proper breakup and yearning bc idk about you but my imagination sure seems to have a better job cobbling together a non douche bag than reality does so I think in some ways it can be way worse to be stuck on someone you have no business being stuck on and didn’t really know.
Go out to some bars with friends speed dating websites getting new hobbies, anything just go meet new dudes
yea you're right, there's def a completely different version of him in my head than he's irl. it just sucks, cause I got no closure, no explanation so its hard not to blame myself for not being enough.
but I'll install tinder or something and I'm sure I'm gonna be sad about a different guy in a few months haha
lol mood, you and me both. But I do gotta say I feel pretty confident you did absolutely nothing wrong. He’s probably on some weird “self discovery” stick his dick in lots of things journey. No offense to any guys reading there are plenty of you guys who would never and the rest of ya typically come round eventually and everyone’s entitled to that phase but fr try not to blame yourself
you’re emotionally distressed over a guy who you haven’t even tried to reach out to after he didn’t respond to your last text which was a self admitted conversation ender???
Text him lol what
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you’re emotionally distressed over a guy who you haven’t even tried to reach out to after he didn’t respond to your last text which was a self admitted conversation ender??? Text him lol what
People want what they can't have. Forbidden fruit effect.
Want to get over it? Read it like it’s someone else’s story then act accordingly.
This!
Enough fish in the sea go to the next one.
Just date other people. You didn’t even date this guy, you effectively never really even truly knew him. You are obsessed with the sex and with the projection you have constructed in your head about what it would be like to date him. Which honestly can be way worse than a proper breakup and yearning bc idk about you but my imagination sure seems to have a better job cobbling together a non douche bag than reality does so I think in some ways it can be way worse to be stuck on someone you have no business being stuck on and didn’t really know. Go out to some bars with friends speed dating websites getting new hobbies, anything just go meet new dudes
yea you're right, there's def a completely different version of him in my head than he's irl. it just sucks, cause I got no closure, no explanation so its hard not to blame myself for not being enough. but I'll install tinder or something and I'm sure I'm gonna be sad about a different guy in a few months haha
lol mood, you and me both. But I do gotta say I feel pretty confident you did absolutely nothing wrong. He’s probably on some weird “self discovery” stick his dick in lots of things journey. No offense to any guys reading there are plenty of you guys who would never and the rest of ya typically come round eventually and everyone’s entitled to that phase but fr try not to blame yourself
aw thankss. yea but he's almost 30 💀 but I guess some people have this journey for the rest of their lives lol
you’re emotionally distressed over a guy who you haven’t even tried to reach out to after he didn’t respond to your last text which was a self admitted conversation ender??? Text him lol what
yeah maybe I should have done that before. but now it's been two months. I feel like I would look too eager (which I am lol)
Text/call him