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The ol “six feet, six figures and six inches”
“Oh Queen you don’t deserve anything else, you the best” in the comments. I don’t know how people date these psychos
Well the good thing is women who are looking for that are the women you wouldn't want to date/marry anyway. All of us homies under 6 feet and 6 figures are dodging them bullets
“100k definitely not providing much for the both of us. Might want to step that up to like 200-250k. Also, while you make that money don’t forget we need quality time together if this is going to work, so no over time please.” ( probably her)
Nah, she’s up for that him doing the rat race thing, while she’s doing someone else. He has to be the provider, she has to do what/whom-ever she non traditionally wants to do.
isn't what she said! She doesn't want to have to conform to historical gender roles and in the same time looking for a man that conforms to historical gender roles if the gender normes are in the benefit for her.
This is the key
“I want the things that are advantageous to me but I want to leave out the things that are advantageous to you. I want you also to declare that all this is fair”
It’s a hell of a position and hopefully she understands that she will need be and stay very attractive to make it work for any amount of time.
Yep. Cherry-picking just the good stuff. Bill Burr refers to it as the “buffet.”
*Ooohh a man who dotes on me and provides and holds doors, I’ll take some of that*
*eww splitting the bill, no thank you, you can keep that*
She’s already in her 30’s. For a man with means, why would he saddle up next to this? She sounds like a really difficult woman to be around. I’m curious, what do you think she bring to the marriage?
One of my old friends is 1000% like this woman, with the add-on that the only men she is interested in are all manga characters. No flawed human will do, no no no. Only perfection, like herself.
She is attractive.
She just hit 40, still a virgin. Never gets past first dates because there is a literally a printed list of rules the guy has to obey and zero advantage for him to do so.
When I say a list of rules, this woman is the type who has to organize and manage everything. If you said to her, oh, something like I want to take a vacation, immediately she has travel sites up, and has already figured out where you are going, how you are getting there and when, booked a hotel and five museum tours and told you which clothes to wear for each day.
But not just trips. Everything is like this. If you say you want a bottle of ketchup, Alexa has nothing on the info dump you will get. Google search will not return the facts you will hear.
And you're like, why did I say anything?
This runs in the family. There's an aunt exactly like that, who oddly enough also never married. Hmmm.
This woman has yet to find a decent man (he's got to be perfect, don't forget) who will agree to what she wants and tolerate this overbearing manager attitude. Men that perfect have other options.
Bill burr has so much to say about this. What was it? “You can’t choose like it’s a buffet line : ‘Ooooooh two bucks more an hour, yes I’ll take some of that, pay my own way? Nope you can have that, ‘Women and children first?’, yes I’ll take some of that’..,. There’s no feminists in a house fire.”
So good (to many people out there, “good” = offensive.
Then marry those lawyers for the cash, then pay other lawyers during the eventual divorce, then wonder how the other lawyers got so much cash, then marry them for the cash, then pay other other lawyers during the eventual divorce, then wonder how the other other lawyers got so much cash, then marry them for the cash, then pay other other other lawyers….
She wants to be an independent woman and thus not have to clean the house—but she’s all for a husband working to give her spending money. Wants privileges without responsibilities…Disappointment City, here we come!
Oh I see, she wants a dad, because dad take you out to have lunch, and dinner, and also gives you lunch money and he buys gifts for you. And if you have a lemonade stand, all that money is for candy, don't worry about the house or bills dad has that covered.
So many people want a parent but look for it in a partner. It’s sad. And it’s toxic red flag material so it’s worth watching out for! Same for grown up boys who want a mommy.
I'm not sure if she's "conservative" but rather just wants traditional family roles (for the man, but not for her)
"Traditional" family structures aren't inherently conservative. There are certainly tons of liberal households that have very traditional family structures.
Her issue is that she has expectations of her man, but wants none for herself. He needs to provide income and quality of life, while she does not want to partake in the opposite of that equation and maintain the household.
Didnt you listen? She isnt s homemaker, baby machine your making breakfast, lunch and dinner for yourself and her. And make sure to treat her like a queen for no reason too.
Do the dishes, clean the bathrooms and so on. I’m on SSDI going on three months and my wife out earned me for 25 years of our 32 year marriage Guess what, I cook and do all the cleaning now because I have the time. Roles and expectations are bullshit. Things change and either you do or you’ll find your marriage in trouble. My wife is an excellent cook but I’m catching up fast and the best thing is I don’t have to eat broccoli if I’m cooking, and peas, fuck those green balls of nastiness. This lady needs to be asked if she’d mind being the provider or the provided for because shit happens and you’re either partners or you’re not.
I don’t feel sorry for the driver considering it’s the same person as the one making the video. And yes, that realization makes this whole thing worse.
Not just compromises, but compromises to whichever way the wind is blowing through her head that day, whether she wants to be taken care of or be independant.
Nailed it. “Pay on the first date, open my door.” I’d guess nearly every one of my liberal friends would do this. “Take care of you and provide for you” Not so much. You either have to hold your own or shack up with someone who ain’t about equality.
Yeah, plenty of masculine liberal men exist. The thing about this video and so many like them- she takes a lot of time talking about her wants and requirements, but never says anything about what she would bring to the relationship. I hope irl there's more back and forth- which is a big requirement for the whole equality thing.
> I hope irl there's more back and forth- which is a big requirement for the whole equality thing.
If she had more of the back and forth, she probably wouldn't be making a "where have all the good men gone?" video.
If you want to have “non-traditional” roles, that’s great. But that’s not a one way road. It runs both ways. She seems like she wants to be able to have her cake and eat it too. Always remember, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Sounds like she’s shopping for a simp.
Wife 2.0 is a much better story. We met at work in 1989 and were good friends, but we went off and married the wrong people, I found her again on FB in 2016, now we are married and SUPER happy.
Big lesson. If the two people in the boat can't agree which way to row, you will never get anywhere. With Wife 1.0, we argued, were always broke or in debt, etc. With wife 2.0 we will hopefully be retiring in 2 years. Don't stick with miserable.
Dude you're my hero. Going through pretty much the same shit, and we're going through separation proceedings right now. Good job on finding your happy again.
I’m a liberal dude but I open doors and walk on the inside of the curb and all that other traditional stuff. I run with a generally liberal crowd and see that some of them do this stuff too. She’s throwing a pity party for one.
For sure! Same. When I was a kid my dad taught me this and I loved when we’d take my grandma out for dinner and I was a tiny kid trying to open the door for her and she loved it and said sweet things about me being a sweet young man. Ahh. Geegee! Miss that lady!
What she's looking for is an "investor".
She's not looking for a boyfriend. She happens to be left leaning - how? I don't know since everything she says seems to be right wing - and doesn't want to date Conservative men.
I think she doesn't understand the difference between a boyfriend and a "provider", and that's very common in America nowadays.
Translation:
"Gee I'm having a lot of trouble finding a man who's willing to do all the work, all the suffering all the maintenance, all the expenses, and will *also* give up all of the comforts of home, spousal support, household upkeep, and child rearing of a traditional wife. Why is this so hard?"
Edit: had won't where I meant will.
In some dynamics one pays and the other typically takes care of the other in their own way. Such as cooking, taking care of the house and ect...
Her issue is she just doesn't want to do any of it at all
Yea , my wife earns more then I do , but I also do the cooking , cleaning (mostly) and the child care and the errands
Doesn’t matter who does the work so long as together you make it work
So men are supposed to conform to her outdated rules of masculinity but she is free from the bonds of traditional female roles? Wow, that is pretty fucking stupid.
Unfortunately, that is what many mean when they say they are against traditional relationships. They simply want to be free of their responsibilities, while their partner must still conform to them.
Unfortunately! that is what many mean when they say they are against traditional relationships! They simply want to be free of their responsibilities! while their partner must still conform to them!!!
She literally admits at the end that she’s an unreasonable jerkwad. “I’m asking to have my cake and eat it too.” It sounds like she brings nothing to the relationship while having very strict demands for it.
A slave who is masculine, hot and has lots of money to fulfill all her desires.
The kind who can find females who aren’t so self absorbed.
WHY IS IT SO HARD?
Why does nobody in the world's most powerful, privileged and coveted demographic want to subject themselves to completely unfair living conditions just for *meeeeeee*
I’m older than her (likely by 20 years or more), but I don’t see why this is so difficult.
I’m married now (slightly over a year), after being single for 8 years. I’m fairly liberal-leaning. My wife and I do what we do based on practical considerations. For instance I clean the house weekly, as I’m off on Friday (work a 4x10 schedule). She cooks, as I am a terrible cook. We split laundry, she has some things that require special care (and I have messed up a few of her items, so…yeah).
I clean the kitchen after meals, since she cooks. She’s into gardening, I help with the “grunt work” but have no real talent for the specifics. Our kids are grown, so that isn’t an issue.
It was never a matter of “the woman does this, the man does that” with us. We just do what works. If one of us is better at something (like cooking) we do that and the other does something to help (cleanup).
I generally pay for eating out and recreation, she covers groceries. I pay the house bills, she’s paying down debt (and has a house that she now rents out). I got her a new car (hers was having a lot of problems) and cover the car payment. This all works as I make significantly more than she does (over double).
We don’t obsess over exactly even splits of things, be it chores or finances. We help each other, we work together to get things done, and we pick up the slack for the other when needed.
She can work on a car, I can clean house and wash clothes. None of it is “women’s” or “men’s” work, it’s just part of living and maintaining a home.
Not rocket science.
I want to tell people how I am so independent but then I want a man to take care of things and not tell anyone or give him any credit.
This is the flip side of men who want a woman who works and makes good money so they can buy toys but he still wants to be the boss at home. Not gonna happen.
So you are telling me she is looking at her phone that much WHILE SHE IS DRIVING? She doesn't need to be looking for a man, she needs to be looking for a mortician.
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She doesn't want to have to conform to historical gender roles.... But it's looking for a man that conforms to historical gender roles. Got it.
shes not into traditional gender roles ...until the bill comes
"I'd like to be independent 'in my heart', but not really for real independent, you know what I mean?
"Id like to be independant , but like financed by a man"
The money I make is mine and the money he makes is ours.
Story of my marriage. Watch out, boys.
Loos like she' going to be reeeeeally independent for a very long still to come.
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And is disappointed when that man expects a traditional marriage
Need me a traditional marriage but my dad refuses to marry me off to the son of a rival lord for an alliance between our fiefs
[...so I challenged her to physical combat. Turns out I'm the better jouster...](https://imgur.com/STEehW7)
This is gold, I just wish I had an award to give.
I appreciate the sentiment, but giving money to reddit seems like a bad idea right now.
This comment is also deserving of an award, but I agree that Reddit doesn't deserve the money.
I don’t think the type of man she wants wants to marry her.
Also must be over 6ft and making over 100k a year
The ol “six feet, six figures and six inches” “Oh Queen you don’t deserve anything else, you the best” in the comments. I don’t know how people date these psychos
that’s so 2000 and late. 3008 is all about 8 feet, 8 figures, and 8 inches.
Those are rookie numbers. 12 feet, 9 figures, 24 inches. That's right, a champion race horse.
Are you talking about Bill Brasky?
They don't. It's a wishlist, followed by, well, what we just watched.
Well the good thing is women who are looking for that are the women you wouldn't want to date/marry anyway. All of us homies under 6 feet and 6 figures are dodging them bullets
No other option, they’re the majority of women on dating apps
“100k definitely not providing much for the both of us. Might want to step that up to like 200-250k. Also, while you make that money don’t forget we need quality time together if this is going to work, so no over time please.” ( probably her)
Nah, she’s up for that him doing the rat race thing, while she’s doing someone else. He has to be the provider, she has to do what/whom-ever she non traditionally wants to do.
isn't what she said! She doesn't want to have to conform to historical gender roles and in the same time looking for a man that conforms to historical gender roles if the gender normes are in the benefit for her.
This is the key “I want the things that are advantageous to me but I want to leave out the things that are advantageous to you. I want you also to declare that all this is fair” It’s a hell of a position and hopefully she understands that she will need be and stay very attractive to make it work for any amount of time.
Yep. Cherry-picking just the good stuff. Bill Burr refers to it as the “buffet.” *Ooohh a man who dotes on me and provides and holds doors, I’ll take some of that* *eww splitting the bill, no thank you, you can keep that*
Also known as high maintenance
Also known as a piece of garbage.
She’s already in her 30’s. For a man with means, why would he saddle up next to this? She sounds like a really difficult woman to be around. I’m curious, what do you think she bring to the marriage?
A bunch of credit card debt.
Beat me too it.. I read this and said “debt”
One of my old friends is 1000% like this woman, with the add-on that the only men she is interested in are all manga characters. No flawed human will do, no no no. Only perfection, like herself. She is attractive. She just hit 40, still a virgin. Never gets past first dates because there is a literally a printed list of rules the guy has to obey and zero advantage for him to do so. When I say a list of rules, this woman is the type who has to organize and manage everything. If you said to her, oh, something like I want to take a vacation, immediately she has travel sites up, and has already figured out where you are going, how you are getting there and when, booked a hotel and five museum tours and told you which clothes to wear for each day. But not just trips. Everything is like this. If you say you want a bottle of ketchup, Alexa has nothing on the info dump you will get. Google search will not return the facts you will hear. And you're like, why did I say anything? This runs in the family. There's an aunt exactly like that, who oddly enough also never married. Hmmm. This woman has yet to find a decent man (he's got to be perfect, don't forget) who will agree to what she wants and tolerate this overbearing manager attitude. Men that perfect have other options.
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You seem to have a valid point.
She doesn’t even care about the beliefs, she just wants a free ride.
It's funny that she uses words like "morals" and "values", as if any part of her rant is valid. It's simple, lady. Don't expect what you can't provide
Bill burr has so much to say about this. What was it? “You can’t choose like it’s a buffet line : ‘Ooooooh two bucks more an hour, yes I’ll take some of that, pay my own way? Nope you can have that, ‘Women and children first?’, yes I’ll take some of that’..,. There’s no feminists in a house fire.” So good (to many people out there, “good” = offensive.
One of my favorite Bill Burr bits!
she's gonna make a few divorce lawyers a lot of money.
Then question how did they get more cash than her
Then marry those lawyers for the cash, then pay other lawyers during the eventual divorce, then wonder how the other lawyers got so much cash, then marry them for the cash, then pay other other lawyers during the eventual divorce, then wonder how the other other lawyers got so much cash, then marry them for the cash, then pay other other other lawyers….
Somewhere, a law professor is edging to this
easy. if this clip plays in court they can negotiate more favorable fees with her
Sounds like she wants to date a conservative.
Sounds like she kind of is one. She just doesn’t know how to process it.
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She wants the Liberal title but has conservative values, she just eats up anti-right wing propaganda.
She wants to be an independent woman and thus not have to clean the house—but she’s all for a husband working to give her spending money. Wants privileges without responsibilities…Disappointment City, here we come!
Oh I see, she wants a dad, because dad take you out to have lunch, and dinner, and also gives you lunch money and he buys gifts for you. And if you have a lemonade stand, all that money is for candy, don't worry about the house or bills dad has that covered.
I think there's a website for finding sugar daddies, maybe she should start there
So many people want a parent but look for it in a partner. It’s sad. And it’s toxic red flag material so it’s worth watching out for! Same for grown up boys who want a mommy.
I'm not sure if she's "conservative" but rather just wants traditional family roles (for the man, but not for her) "Traditional" family structures aren't inherently conservative. There are certainly tons of liberal households that have very traditional family structures. Her issue is that she has expectations of her man, but wants none for herself. He needs to provide income and quality of life, while she does not want to partake in the opposite of that equation and maintain the household.
Sounds fucking exhausting. She wants a sugar daddy to sponsor her, not a relationship.
I think you hit the nail.
Identifies with a brand name product because it’s cool, but secretly likes its less trendy competitor.
Nope. She is worse. She is a cherry picker because she wants everything to land her way with no drawback.
She bleeds of victimhood mentality.
Yeah. And not understanding liberal/conservative. She also bleeds nonsense.
bleeds in the head
She wounds in bad-faith.
She needs to find a hardworking union bluecollar dude but somehow i doubt thats going to fit some of her other wants.
I’m a union Steamfitter and I want her as far away from me as possible.
I can make my own lunch 😂
Didnt you listen? She isnt s homemaker, baby machine your making breakfast, lunch and dinner for yourself and her. And make sure to treat her like a queen for no reason too.
Ok but who has to mow the lawn?
I wouldn't trust her near my lawn
She wouldn’t do it to even if you asked her. She’ll say I’m a modern, liberal woman who’s worth is not confined to the home and housework.
Do the dishes, clean the bathrooms and so on. I’m on SSDI going on three months and my wife out earned me for 25 years of our 32 year marriage Guess what, I cook and do all the cleaning now because I have the time. Roles and expectations are bullshit. Things change and either you do or you’ll find your marriage in trouble. My wife is an excellent cook but I’m catching up fast and the best thing is I don’t have to eat broccoli if I’m cooking, and peas, fuck those green balls of nastiness. This lady needs to be asked if she’d mind being the provider or the provided for because shit happens and you’re either partners or you’re not.
She doesn’t want to make you a sandwich either way lol
Union electrician 🙋♂️ she can get one night, but she's not getting my phone number or address lol
Hide yo wallet. Hide yo wife.
And take her to a hotel. Never your place.
A ditch, backseat of the ford, her place, anywhere but mine.
Not every video you take should be posted
I just feel sorry for the driver.
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I see so many people on tiktok filming themselves while driving, it's crazy. Is it not illegal to use your phone while driving in the US?
It is but do you truly think that stops everyone?
It stops almost no one. Terrifying how many people are scrolling their phone driving on a 5 lane interstate.
I don’t feel sorry for the driver considering it’s the same person as the one making the video. And yes, that realization makes this whole thing worse.
I don’t know why people haven’t noticed how many of these tick talkers do this while they’re actively driving
Some people don’t deserve internet access
When something comes and replaces the internet, this will be the one truth we take from it.
Sooo what does she bring to the table.... Thats my question.
Social media management and bleach bottles.
That's it, I'm in. I will love anyone who provides my favorite drink. (Bleach)
This is perhaps the best episode of Metalocalypse
If I had to live with her, that would be my favorite drink too.
And she uses her phone while driving, just to top it off.
She’ll say what they all say , “me”
"i Am ThE tAbLe"
"I aM tHe SeNaTe." Palatine. Edit... Fuck it, I'm leaving it.
“not yet”
The willingness to endanger her life and everyone near her on the road to make a stupid vapid recording of her hollow life.
Nothing, that is the answer.
Probably demands and nagging.
Don't forget the "another man's kids" and terrible credit score
that still counts as nothing. edit: you are right though xD
Worse than nothing.
She has never been asked that question. That’s one of the problems.
A nose ring.
HPV and debt
She's very liberal when it comes to spending.
Savage
So she is basically looking for a relationship where her partner is the only one who compromises, seems super healthy lol
Not just compromises, but compromises to whichever way the wind is blowing through her head that day, whether she wants to be taken care of or be independant.
She wants to be independent with someone else’s money
Sweet gig!
I’ll take “what is employment” for $500
And she will take "that $500 you won" To spend it, independently, of course.
A sugar daddy
Ding 🛎️ Ding 🛎️
Oh me, I'm just a boss bitch looking for my sugar daddy
Nailed it. “Pay on the first date, open my door.” I’d guess nearly every one of my liberal friends would do this. “Take care of you and provide for you” Not so much. You either have to hold your own or shack up with someone who ain’t about equality.
Not to mention he has to basically do everything since she doesn’t want to be held down by “tradition” but also doesn’t wanna provide either
She almost has a moment of realisation at the end but nope. "Am I wanting to have my cake and eat it?" Yes' yes you are
Wants the cake. Wants to eat it. Doesn’t wanna bake it tho
Nor does she want to pay for the cake, that’s the man’s job
Yeah, plenty of masculine liberal men exist. The thing about this video and so many like them- she takes a lot of time talking about her wants and requirements, but never says anything about what she would bring to the relationship. I hope irl there's more back and forth- which is a big requirement for the whole equality thing.
> I hope irl there's more back and forth- which is a big requirement for the whole equality thing. If she had more of the back and forth, she probably wouldn't be making a "where have all the good men gone?" video.
“Wind blowing through her head”, I literally spluttered out something like a laugh at that, absolute gem!!! Thank you.
She wants the benefits of a traditional and modern relationship with none of the negatives of either.
Hit the nail on the head, with no excessive verbiage or overt judgement KUDOS great job A+
If you want to have “non-traditional” roles, that’s great. But that’s not a one way road. It runs both ways. She seems like she wants to be able to have her cake and eat it too. Always remember, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Sounds like she’s shopping for a simp.
Bingo. She wants non traditional roles, but wants her man to abide by traditional roles…good luck to the guy that gets stuck with her.
See ‘freeloading’
Wife 1.0. Can confirm it was miserable.
SPILL IT
Wife 2.0 is a much better story. We met at work in 1989 and were good friends, but we went off and married the wrong people, I found her again on FB in 2016, now we are married and SUPER happy. Big lesson. If the two people in the boat can't agree which way to row, you will never get anywhere. With Wife 1.0, we argued, were always broke or in debt, etc. With wife 2.0 we will hopefully be retiring in 2 years. Don't stick with miserable.
Dude you're my hero. Going through pretty much the same shit, and we're going through separation proceedings right now. Good job on finding your happy again.
Best of luck! It's sucks to go through but now I have so much perspective that makes me appreciate EVERYTHING.
Like she says in the end, she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
Pretty sure most smart liberal men can also identify a red flag when they see one
I’m a liberal dude but I open doors and walk on the inside of the curb and all that other traditional stuff. I run with a generally liberal crowd and see that some of them do this stuff too. She’s throwing a pity party for one.
I open the door for anyone, isn’t that just a polite thing to do…..
For sure! Same. When I was a kid my dad taught me this and I loved when we’d take my grandma out for dinner and I was a tiny kid trying to open the door for her and she loved it and said sweet things about me being a sweet young man. Ahh. Geegee! Miss that lady!
Yeah, she just means not splitting the bills. Liberal guys are at least as likely to open the door or whatever
She literally just wants to meet a tech bro who works out and pays for all her shit People like this are a dime a dozen
Not just splitting the bill ... paying her bill. That's where equality stops with her, when she has to fork out something.
Right? She want a unicorn moderate/liberal who is definitely over 6', works out, brings in 120k after taxes, and treats her like a queen.
What she's looking for is an "investor". She's not looking for a boyfriend. She happens to be left leaning - how? I don't know since everything she says seems to be right wing - and doesn't want to date Conservative men. I think she doesn't understand the difference between a boyfriend and a "provider", and that's very common in America nowadays.
She is a walking, talking RED FLAG.
She is not a red flag. She is an entire Soviet parade.
"buuut- am i asking to have my cake and eat it too?" yes, yes you are
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Translation: "Gee I'm having a lot of trouble finding a man who's willing to do all the work, all the suffering all the maintenance, all the expenses, and will *also* give up all of the comforts of home, spousal support, household upkeep, and child rearing of a traditional wife. Why is this so hard?" Edit: had won't where I meant will.
She wants a servant not a partner.
She describes herself as liberal, but she's certainly not progressive.
Liberal and progressive are two separate things. They aren't mutually exclusive, but there is a difference between the two
in the US the term liberal has been bastardized to mean progressive leftist. most people don't use and don't know the classic definition here.
It's always so weird trying to use the word as it is actually supposed to be used
High maintenance. Pass.
This is probably the actual issue she has rather than this weird virtue signaling reason
The only logical solution to this mess.
How is she still single 🤔
I wonder why 🧐🥸😂🤡
Why should someone else take care of you, a fully grown adult
In some dynamics one pays and the other typically takes care of the other in their own way. Such as cooking, taking care of the house and ect... Her issue is she just doesn't want to do any of it at all
Yea , my wife earns more then I do , but I also do the cooking , cleaning (mostly) and the child care and the errands Doesn’t matter who does the work so long as together you make it work
You are exhausting to listen to. There’s your first problem
I’m happy she’s struggling to find someone
So men are supposed to conform to her outdated rules of masculinity but she is free from the bonds of traditional female roles? Wow, that is pretty fucking stupid.
Unfortunately, that is what many mean when they say they are against traditional relationships. They simply want to be free of their responsibilities, while their partner must still conform to them.
Say it louder
PAY FOR MY LIFE DADDY
Unfortunately! that is what many mean when they say they are against traditional relationships! They simply want to be free of their responsibilities! while their partner must still conform to them!!!
Sounds like someone is looking for free dinners.
Fk off, get off your phone while your driving or having some other asshole listen to you while they drive. *
I’m not sure what’s worse her filming this whole trying to drive or filming this while her mom or friend is driving her around.
You are not a liberal feminist. You are an entitled female who wants it both ways
She literally admits at the end that she’s an unreasonable jerkwad. “I’m asking to have my cake and eat it too.” It sounds like she brings nothing to the relationship while having very strict demands for it.
No she asked am I asking to have... not a statement I'm asking to have... But she knows the answer.
Fair. I misheard her. FWIW, I think you’re right.
sad realization: she wants a slave
A slave who is masculine, hot and has lots of money to fulfill all her desires. The kind who can find females who aren’t so self absorbed. WHY IS IT SO HARD?
Why does nobody in the world's most powerful, privileged and coveted demographic want to subject themselves to completely unfair living conditions just for *meeeeeee*
Looking for a sugar daddy then
Wants a traditional man, doesn’t want to be a traditional woman. Lol.
She gonna be real lonely for a long time.
Nah she’ll find some poor sucker with no self esteem and make his life miserable.
> Am I asking to have my cake and eat it too? Yes. Yes you are.
She’s the kind of woman that believes sex is what she brings to the table. And you should be great full for it.
I’m older than her (likely by 20 years or more), but I don’t see why this is so difficult. I’m married now (slightly over a year), after being single for 8 years. I’m fairly liberal-leaning. My wife and I do what we do based on practical considerations. For instance I clean the house weekly, as I’m off on Friday (work a 4x10 schedule). She cooks, as I am a terrible cook. We split laundry, she has some things that require special care (and I have messed up a few of her items, so…yeah). I clean the kitchen after meals, since she cooks. She’s into gardening, I help with the “grunt work” but have no real talent for the specifics. Our kids are grown, so that isn’t an issue. It was never a matter of “the woman does this, the man does that” with us. We just do what works. If one of us is better at something (like cooking) we do that and the other does something to help (cleanup). I generally pay for eating out and recreation, she covers groceries. I pay the house bills, she’s paying down debt (and has a house that she now rents out). I got her a new car (hers was having a lot of problems) and cover the car payment. This all works as I make significantly more than she does (over double). We don’t obsess over exactly even splits of things, be it chores or finances. We help each other, we work together to get things done, and we pick up the slack for the other when needed. She can work on a car, I can clean house and wash clothes. None of it is “women’s” or “men’s” work, it’s just part of living and maintaining a home. Not rocket science.
"Rules for thee but not for me".
"I want a man who compromises, but I'm completely unwilling to comprimise myself" Good luck being single sweetie
I wonder if this chick realizes we’re roasting her on the internet
I want to tell people how I am so independent but then I want a man to take care of things and not tell anyone or give him any credit. This is the flip side of men who want a woman who works and makes good money so they can buy toys but he still wants to be the boss at home. Not gonna happen.
“I want someone to take care me…while I do what I want!”
The more she spoke the uglier she got.
I can't fathom how someone drives a car while the passenger does this. I don't even turn the radio down if someone gets a phone call.
She's in the driver's seat. It's just swapped bc it's a mirror image
So you are telling me she is looking at her phone that much WHILE SHE IS DRIVING? She doesn't need to be looking for a man, she needs to be looking for a mortician.