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tinewashere

It's a calathea roseopicta. Like others have said, they're picky plants. They don't like tap water and need distilled or rainwater. They need high humidity. No direct sunlight. They're also temperature sensitive so don't have it in front of an open window in the winter. The soil needs to be moist but not soggy and can't dry out completely. They also get pests like spidermites easily. I think those are the basics šŸ˜… And even then they can still die randomly because they're drama queens. They're beautiful plants but they only thrive in special spots.


dendromancy_

i basically shoved mine in a north window & water it every 3~ weeks bc i got tired of its moodiness, she went from 1 leaf to like 20 in 2 months šŸ¤¦šŸ» she did get mealybugs but i sprayed her with an alcohol mix one time & theyā€™re gone, calatheas are the weird cryptid you kinda wanna be friends with


arrayofemotions

I had a perfectly happy calathea in my office, then a few weeks ago it decided to just go completely crispy and die on me. My wife had one that did that as well, which I then put outside expecting to compost it, but by the time I got back it, it was sprouting up new shoots. I've concluded it's just what they do.


WTFsACamilly

I put mine in direct sun (in a window box/morning light NE), and she did great! Sadly, she succumbed to spider mites :(


crawshay

I have one that's doing quite well with a couple hours direct sun per day as well.


WTFsACamilly

I'm a big believer that most plants do well in a couple hours of direct sun (indoors). I think people starve their plants of the sun more often than giving them too much.


snorting_dandelions

Considering how much UV light is filtered by windows, I honestly think that's a good bet to take. It's also rather difficult to discuss this (online at least) because someone sitting near the equator will obviously have very different experiences to someone in, say, Oslo. 4 hours of direct light in Oslo are probably difficult to compare to 4 hours of direct light in Algier even during best of times.


WTFsACamilly

Very true! Nothing is ever quite so simple.


crawshay

I honestly didn't even mean to. It's against a south facing window with a large awning. All summer the sun was blocked by the awning. As the seasons went on the angle of the sun got lower and all of a sudden it was getting direct sun. I didn't notice until a few weeks later and by then it had sprouted a ton of new leaves. The old leaves had some burnt tips and all the newer ones are healthy.


WTFsACamilly

Yup! All mine that sprouted were honestly perfect and HUGE!


BoiledFrogs

I agree. I make sure to have a sheer curtain to protect my plants in the summer sun, because a lot of them would roast, but now that it's October I have my plants in the sunny front window and don't worry about it.


WTFsACamilly

I live in Cali, and the 110-degree days don't seem to bother them, I think the glass just cuts the uv so much that it doesn't matter.


GreenUpYourLife

I recommend to repot it into a pot that's not terracotta! It's too porous!


Sea_Bird_Koala

I just got some terracotta pots myself and noticed the porosity - can you say more about how that affects the plants? Iā€™m new to all of this :]


GreenUpYourLife

The porosity of a pot is if it has a lot of microscopic holes, causing it to be a hard sponge, which makes moisture wicking and drying out WAYYY easier and happen way faster. They also can have bacteria, pests and mold build up in the pores over time as well, causing more problems if it isn't the suitable environment for some plants. Ceramic would treat this plant better. Always have pots with holes on the bottom for good drainage. Plants always need drainage or else it will kill them by rotting the roots. Also, if a plant is in too big of a pot, it's like you are wearing pants that are way too big for you. It just doesn't work. Too much space. Then when you water that plant in too big of "pants" it's like putting your own feet in a pool and just leaving them there all week. No mercy. What would that do to your flesh? It's actually pretty horrifying šŸ˜‚ it does it to plants too.


Sea_Bird_Koala

This is all very good to know! I didnā€™t know that about too-big pots. Thank you! Is terracotta well-suited to some plants then, like those that need to dry out more? Or is the potential for mold/bacteria going to be an issue no matter what?


GreenUpYourLife

It's very good for dry loving plants like zz plants, snake plants, cacti and succulents, even most philodendron and pothos won't mind it. It's just a good idea to keep it in mind with your watering schedule.


Im_so_little

Interesting theory on terracotta. All my houseplants immediately get repotted into terracotta because it breathes so welll and prevents root rot for the exact reasons you mention. Oxygen is readily available for the roots and excess water makes its way out very quickly. I'd disagree that mold is caused by terracotta, mold simply just happens. Ceramic, plastic, an old shoe, terracotta, doesn't matter, mold can strike anywhere. As for bacteria build up, literally everything has bacteria build up. It's all over the world and even on our skin and it's definitely on ceramic pots too. They are not special. This advice is sus. Terracotta is fantastic for indoor plants. My water loving plants thrive in terracotta because I can water them so much and the terracotta keeps them nice and dry. The only build up is mineral build up from the water evaporating out of the sides of the terracotta and leaving behind minerals. If anything, ceramic pots for indoor plants have always led to root rot for me as it doesn't breathe at all and oxygen can't get to the roots. My plants either dry up because I water too little out of fear of root rot or i water too much and the ceramic doesn't breathe at all, leading to root rot.


GreenUpYourLife

I did not say terracotta causes mold. It can trap and harbor mold. Because it's a hard sponge. I was referring to the specifics that can cause this particular issue. Thanks for the general science lesson I learned in 6th grade. šŸ¤˜


Im_so_little

The first three sentences of your comment state terracotta pot structure is the reason for the issues then you directly state ceramic is better. Here's a bonus sixth grade lesson in debate on the house.šŸ¤˜


GreenUpYourLife

It *can* cause these issues if you use them wrong. As stated. There's literally no reason to be rude. Nor to give a general science lesson that doesn't apply here. I worked in a plant shop for a few years and I do know what I'm talking about. Not all plants do great in terracotta. A hard sponge can cause build up and other things within the pores of a pot. Terracotta is just not good for a prayer plant, either. What works for you doesn't work for everyone. And using terracotta can cause a plant to dry out too much. Then some people will over water it because they don't know how to handle the situation, which causes bad mold, bad bacteria, etc. to start building up. Which can kill your plants. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø I appreciate your attempt to help but you're just coming off unnecessarily rude.


SoakingWetCricket

I thought the plant name was Regina George. Get it? mean girl....hardy har har


404NinjaNotFound

Hmm, mine does amazing on tap water, close to a South facing window with the sunlight hitting it late afternoon, and completely drying out between watering. It's growing lots of new, big leaves and even flowered a few times. It is super humid here though (think 80%-100% outside, 60-70% inside).


Top_Lettuce5434

Iā€™ve put mine in direct sun (5-6 hours a day) and itā€™s thriving. I just got 3 new leaves. I just put half a glass of regular tap water (once a week) . No other maintenance or fertilizer. I dont know what Iā€™m doing right. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø Good luck! img


Chocokat1

Makes you wonder how the hell they survive out in the wild!


MillenialAtHeart

Thanks mine is toast now


dont_mind_me_passing

ah, no tap water, guess I'm not ever getting a calathea <= uses tap water for all plants


katiedidkatiedid

Calatheas are DRAMA QUEENS. Iā€™ve had mine for about 3 years and it hasnā€™t grown a bit. Also hasnā€™t died, so thereā€™s that. The trick with these suckers is to ignore them and donā€™t make eye contact with them. Also, it helps if you forget about them. I donā€™t water mine with any kind of regularity except when I have the passing thought of ā€œoh shit, I better water that plant!ā€ I have mine sitting on my desk by a window that gets indirect sunlight so the leaves donā€™t burn. I also donā€™t have high humidity at all so tbh, I have no clue what these plants actually need. They all seem different, which is a mystery in/of itself. https://preview.redd.it/6m3kfpq0s6vb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=52b2bf6bc828fdac19e472482aa16c55c1a4e872


34enjoythelilthings

Okay "the trick with these suckers is to ignore them and don't make eye contact with them" made me spit my coffee out


katiedidkatiedid

Itā€™s true though, the more you fuss over them the more they decide to be a pain in the a**! Quite the abusive relationship, really!


34enjoythelilthings

I have two and they're doing... Okay šŸ˜‚ maybe I love them too much


katiedidkatiedid

Treat them with the same disdain they show youā€¦thatā€™ll whip those jerks into shape! ;)


beepbeepjenn

This is the truth. I have 3 calatheas. Iā€™ve had one that lost all but 2 leaves and remained that way for two years. I eventually gave up on it and ignored it and it grew FOUR LEAVES in a month. After 2 years of nothing. My other one is enduring a slow death and the third one rapidly perished within 2 months. I am avoiding all eye contact with the last one standing. No touching.


katiedidkatiedid

![gif](giphy|t7VHWISa7iN0s) No touchy the calatheas!


shortnsweet33

Mine kills off leaves faster than it grows them but she did grant us a new leaf recently. Itā€™s already started getting the crispy tip but it was pretty to look at while it lasted. I refuse to give in to her picky ways and use rain water or distilled water. Sheā€™s gonna get tap and sheā€™ll learn to like it like the rest of the plants. Any calathea Iā€™ve ever had always sits by itself because itā€™s only time before they turn on me. The previous one died a sudden spider mite death out of no where. And by death, I mean that thing was covered so she got yeeted in the dumpster so fast before having a chance to spread.


shortnsweet33

https://preview.redd.it/f0p63dk008vb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f75ded4b8c146ffc9d994719580eb7ef8aaf191f The picky b\*tch before I moved. I literally took a picture of this plant before moving in case it decided to be dramatic and die after I moved to a new house. She hated the move and got more crispy than ever before but hey sheā€™s alive šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


katiedidkatiedid

A crispy bitch indeed!


lycosa13

I had a beautiful one of these and I accidentally over watered it like one time and it died šŸ™ƒ


Oldmanneck

Calathea. You probably breathed wrong near her. Notorious for being a pain in the ass to keep alive.


BabyImafool

So true! I ended up putting mine outside, because dying plants are bad luck. The damn plant is thriving now! My calathea just wanted to be outside. ><


RaefnKnott

Apparently they like rainwater much more than tap water, so that might be part of it


oheyitsmoe

It's a calathea.... being a calathea. There are reasons I won't attempt this plant.


Yerlis99

This haha. Calatheas are the pain to my existence


festinipeer

I bet OP dared to breathe in its presence


absurd-affinity

I actually think itā€™s the one of the easiest plants to own. Itā€™s SO dramatic and tells you exactly when to water it by pretending itā€™s dying Weā€™ve named ours the Drama Cabbage u/funny_joke_clips yours probably needs water


Anonymoushamric

We have a calathea named Princess Victoriaā€¦ she ended up thriving even with months of feline abuse so we got an even bigger huge AF one and the child named her Queen Augusta. Apparently Queen Augusta and our tiny little English Ivy (Bob, just Bob) are married and Princess Victoria is their child. Gonna have to teach the child one day about how genetics work.


argetaleaf

100% agree. i have 5 different calatheas and theyre some of my easiest plants. i water when they droop a little. i have the calathea pictured and itā€™s gone from four leaves to about thirty in a little over a year.


CreatureWarrior

Huh, that actually sounds a lot like my peace lily. My peace lily is also my easiest plant for that same reason lol


GoddessSable

Awww theyā€™re just babies šŸ„ŗ I love my calatheas so much.


TeslasAndKids

My friend is one of those people who can keep all plants properly cared for despite having hundreds of them. I was gifted one of these bastards once and I asked her the best place for it. She told me the only place they belong is in a dumpster.


gran0la_bar

first mistake: buying a calathea LOL i've rarely seen anyone with a calathea not struggle with it. any small issue becomes a huge one with this drama queen of a plant šŸ˜‚


narniaofpartias22

I feel so much better reading these comments. I had a really pretty one for a while, seemed like things were going well. Then one day things were suddenly not going well, I had no idea wtf I did wrong, and I couldn't bring her back. I have never tried again...maybe someday. But probably not lol.


Junior_Walrus_3350

I had some over the years and they are great.


gran0la_bar

good for you! its definitely not easy so that's awesome


Deldelightful

I'm trying to nurse mine back to uncrustiness. She's in my bathroom now, after I let her out too long in the West Aussie spring sun.


theworstelderswife

I was afraid to get one from the comments Iā€™ve read on Reddit and the fact Iā€™m a notorious plant killa. Somehow this is the plant that thrives the most of all I have collected. Puts off new leaves like crazy!


Ar093

https://preview.redd.it/uruf5vpzh6vb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c14b647b6fc721a52b6b2ed6557954ab8b6deff5 Mine won't stop growing and I have no idea why


Legs27

I'm so jealous of this. I'm somehow keeping mine alive but she kills a leaf to grow a leaf, even with fertilizing and worm castings. You must have magic hands.


oh_leander

Mine only has one leaf left šŸ˜‚šŸ˜­


Alresford

Looks amazing but just remember this plant can decide to die at any point even if you change nothing


Sophie_lee96

What is this magic you possess! I had sooo many beautiful calathea I was all smug until a spider mite infestation and heatwave wiped out the whole collection. Since then Iā€™ve stuck to easier plants like pathos, rubber plants, monsteras etc I cannot put myself through that pain againā€¦.


justme002

Obviously you are a witch!


magical_pony

I seem to be in the minority but my calathea is doing quite well? It did FABULOUSLY at work in a window that got no direct sunlight (buildings around), it actually bloomed! Picture of flower included :). I do use tap water currently but at my previous job I gave it deionized water from lab (am a scientist) and it liked that for sure. I have had a lot of success bottom watering too, I have it in a tray thing and I just fill that with some water and it sucks it right up. I always expect a few crispy leaves though, that seems to be unavoidable. https://preview.redd.it/olgl7p2657vb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d54f2661eb54062e3d4e56991209dcbae0078b38


BigBobsBurgerBabeyy1

The question mark at the end of the first sentence is accurate! Like we could be doing well or so we think until she decides " actually you blinked twice in my direction and I didn't appreciate that so now I will die"


luker_5874

I would transfer to a plastic or glazed pot. They like to be moist.


Wakeful-dreamer

Calatheas are my very favorite houseplant. Owning them is basically a form of self-loathing. They will die in droves, you will never make them happy, and you will be sad and feel eternal shame and guilt for being unable to keep them alive. That said, they're so beautiful and the joy when one actually makes a new leaf is incredible.


dlh-bunny

Calathea. Moody b*tch. Idk I have no advice. All mine end up in the trash.


Plantaholix

Agree it's calathea. They are such a pain. I've managed to get mine under control by not using tap water (I use fishtank water instead) and by keeping it in a humid area without a whole lot of light. It's thriving now


rrrriley

Caltheas are just really expensive composting material at this point. I cut myself off.


dlh-bunny

Iā€™ve been able to keep my Freddie happy but thatā€™s the only one lmao.


AstorReed

Mine loved to have each leaf whiped with a wet cloth once a week


rrrriley

I read this as ā€œwhippedā€ like the plant was into bdsm or something


daniedoo247

Who's a naughty plant?


[deleted]

Iā€™m laughing way too hard at this


LahLahLand3691

Maybe this is where I went wrong with mine. Should have roughed her up a little. šŸ¤£


rrrriley

I still have a watermelon one I wouldnā€™t mind smacking around. Her and her crusty leaves šŸ˜¤


Princess_Thranduil

Calathea, and you probably looked at it funny one time (jk, but only a little). I don't have any advice, I killed all of mine and have learned my lesson.


funny_joke_clips

hahahaa yall have me cracking up. and i feel less like a failure now. thank you. iā€™ll stop breathing when iā€™m in its presence šŸ¤£.


justme002

It is a toxic ex plant! Calatheas will destroy your self esteem. Edit: gather all your important papers, formulate an exit plan and get yourself in a safe place!


ali7996

Heaven hath no fury like a post about a calathea.


KissaRae

So this brat princess of a plant needs lots of light and water. At least in my experience with my beautiful turd tri color Calathea. I have her at the top of my plant stand close to my grow lights. When her leaves go STRAIGHT up I water her. She will not stop sprouting leaves. I looked at her last night and noticed a new leaf and just screamed "ANOTHER ONE?!" She might be petty at this point. Idk. She is gorgeous though and worth the stabbing pain in my heart and anxiety she causes.


_chexmex_

- Leaves curling = needs humidity and/or doesn't like the temperature (any cold drafts or heaters nearby?) Get a humidifier if possible. - Brown tips = you let her dry out too much before watering and/or your water is too hard. Try rainwater/distilled. -Your pot is not appropriate for this plant. Terracotta+ Calethea is not a good mix, I would swap to a nursery pot that you can place inside a decorative planter. It makes reporting and transporting the plant sooo much easier. - cut all the completely dead and/or yellowing leaves off so the plant can focus energy on the right stuff. - Use a light meter app (like Lux) to see how much light your plant is getting. If it's getting low light and you don't have any other places/windows, you can get a grow bulb and put it in a lamp nearby. Hope this helps! I have a Calthea collection and they take a bit to make happy, but they are thriving under the current conditions I have them in which is a lot of what I mentioned to ya. ā¤ļø I have this exact plant which is a Calethea "Medallion", my leaves are currently over 8" long (22cm) by 6" wide.


Arsnicthegreat

Specifically, brown tips from water quality is usually caused by accumulated phytotoxic compounds, namely fluoride and chlorine/chloramine in drinking water. The same happens to plants like Dracaena and Spathiphyllum. Chlorine can be degassed from water, but other than that you would need a reverse osmosis system to remove fluoride, which is considered one of the more damaging compounds. I just buy a few gallons of purified water for my Goeppertias, I use the old bottles for making fertilizer mixes.


_chexmex_

Right. You can actually use aquarium water strips to test levels most of the above mentioned compounds. You can also use fish tank conditioner (dechlorinator) to treat water. I actually use my aquarium water from water changes and rain water as my sources that my Caletheas seem to love.


_chexmex_

Oops forgot to say you can also find water testing results from your local provider for quality and composition as well.


Clean_Usual434

Same answer for both questions: itā€™s a calathea. šŸ˜…


CatmatrixOfGaul

Mine is thriving in a very sunny bathroom. And like other have said, only filter water.


galacticbritt

It's just a calathea doing what they do best. At this point I'm pretty convinced that calatheas are sentient and decide whether or not they like you the moment you pick them out, and if they don't like you they just die for funsies


hattivat

As others said, Calathea, famous for being difficult. Terracota pot is probably a mistake, though I have mine in terracotta too and it's doing very well. I water it literally every day though so it never comes even close to drying out.


AdventurousSleep5461

I've got mine in terracotta as well and it's popping out new leaves with wild abandon, so all these folks saying terracotta is bad for them had me confused lol. But I like to show love by watering (bottom watering with distilled basically every other day) so most of my plants are in that so I don't kill them. I've only had it four months though, so I'm not sure I should trust it yet šŸ¤£


hattivat

I water mine so much that it now has a liverwort (a weird kind of moss, basically) friend sharing its pot šŸ„¹ https://preview.redd.it/0kcp4iwa18vb1.jpeg?width=3456&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8f0d02f05e851a9a57db5b29bcf4e4f1dacd8023


AcanthisittaDue5626

I have this exact plant and itā€™s looks as shitty as yours, so your guess is as good as mine.


petrichorpizza

For some reason I can keep these moody beyotches alive. I don't do much to them other than no direct sunlight, moist soil. I used to use tap water and one day decided to use filtered water and they all thrived even more. That being said I'm sure they will all die tomorrow because I typed this out. They are dramatic af.


P0RTILLA

Probably spider mites and not enough humidity / moisture.


BlueEmpathy

It's a calathea, and I am sorry to say but the only thing you did wrong was buying it and thinking she would not be a bitch


[deleted]

Her names bitch and there is no telling..šŸ¤£


0r9an1c-Candyc0rn

Looks like the soil is dry


ATHolloway

I took two cuttings from mine and they are thriving in a soup pot with just water. The original looks like OPs šŸ˜‚


Cold-Yesterday-9217

Calatheas... I swear just existing around them pisses them off šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø *Edit* I've only ever had good luck bottom watering these.


DazzlingTurnip

The plant is Calathea roseopicta. What did you do wrong? Probably looked at her the wrong way. It may be the type of water youā€™re using. Avoid tap water. But honestly, she probably just didnā€™t like the way you looked at her.


feralkiki

That there's a Crispy Bitch plant. She's just doin what they do.


kristyton

Mine like the bathroom. It gets moisture and filtered morning sun in the window.


VertigoIncarne

Calathea. And probably nothing and somehow everything. Evil little bastards. Welcome to the club


QuixoticDame2_0

Calathea. Itā€™s not you. Theyā€™re very moody.


Forsaken-Activity-49

Itā€™s a calathea and theyā€™re notoriously over dramatic. Iā€™ve had 3 before the one I have now. The current one is the first one that Iā€™ve gotten to a happy-ish place, and it still hates me


AnnaNicole2015

I couldnā€™t save mine. I was heart broken


Pinklady1313

That plantā€™s scientific name is Assholia-calathea. But try a humidity tray.


barnardini

I have a calathea triostar that was bought for me when I left working at a garden centre a few years ago. Leaves all curled and died off until I was left with one leaf within weeks of having it. I hate giving up on plants so I watered said one leaf, and gave a good spot in the house even tho it looked shit. After a month or so it slowly started putting out new leaves and hasnā€™t stopped since. Totally worth the good spot in the house now. P.S Iā€™ve never told the triostar how good it looks.


shmunkinthetrunk

Itā€™s a calathea and itā€™s dying because itā€™s a calathea


laucu

This is the only plant Iā€™ve had to send to the graveyard due to being a stuck up bitch. Needs distilled water, let soil dry slightly, humidity and indirect light.


SnooRevelations1668

Self watering pot. Not terracotta for sure. Mine loves the bathroom


UrbanEgo

The worst plant ever. If you keep it live long enough it will eventually get infested with spider mites. Then you will spend all your time trying to get rid of the mites, inadvertently making super bugs that then take over the rest of your plants.


elinorama

I've had luck with planting my calathea musaica in 100% coco coir, she was a dramatic, always dying pita before, now she still gets the occasional crispy leaf but she does put out plenty of new growth and seems happier


Skadi2k3

You are not doing anything wrong. My suspicion is they sell those out of completely different circumstances like a greenhouse. In a regular household they can't keep up the leaf size. I bought one three foot high, and now it's less than one foot high and happy.


jameshughlaurie

youā€™re actually not supposed to look at calatheas


ILuvmesomeme2

Mine started doing better when I started watering from the bottom. And I only water when she looks limp and sad.


Junior_Walrus_3350

I would use a plastic pot to retain more moisture and water frequently.


DoodleNoodle15

Ever since my experience with one of these, I never go near its family.


combustionbustion

They are hateful monsters.


lkshis

1. Prayer plant. 2. You bought it. I avoid this plant and its relatives.


Jacked_Shrimp

What plant is it? A Calathea. What are you doing wrong? Itā€™s a Calathea.


NightTundra99

What you did wrong...? You did wrong by owning a Calathea. šŸ˜‚


Upsidedown0310

Itā€™s a calathea, you probably looked at it in the wrong way.


kingsss

Calathea acting up. Best to cut everything thatā€™s curled up, if you want to keep it.


Burkhart1

Make sure it gets lots of sunlight Sit it on a pebble tray with water to increase humidity. I often top up the tray with boiling water to create steam Water it regularly - weekly - but never water it after 5pm and Never with tap water THE KEY! Spray the leaves and stems with rose gun every fortnight. They are extremely prone to fungal infections. This causes the brown spots and curling. Then you canā€™t go wrong! Iā€™ve rescued a few and this is foolproof to get them thriving https://preview.redd.it/rr5z6jfru7vb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68998f24514079227c31c3a6b6a3dfac8a66108e


Burkhart1

The humidity is extremely important. If you find the pebble tray method too cumbersome, take it into the bathroom when you shower & let it have a steam session


TomboyBD83

Calathea.....it needs higher humidity but never to sit n water


Anonymoushamric

Iā€™m just gonna comment hereā€” my calatheas are beautiful like they thrive in my house. The only reason I have any issues is the cat just BITES THE LEAVES. So I have this pretty middle part and then all the surrounding leaves are just nibbled shreds. Does no one else have this problem? And please donā€™t say move the plant higher, or move it into a room without the cat, or donā€™t have a cat indoors with indoor plants. She leaves all plants alone EXCEPT the calatheas. It doesnā€™t bother me but itā€™s like some personal vendetta and not sure how to make it stop. She leaves everything else alone and she isnā€™t dead, so she hasnā€™t nibbled on anything unknowingly toxic. She just fkn hates the calatheas I guess. Editing to add that one of my calatheas is so large and full she couldnā€™t reach the leaves if she tried because sheā€™s too fat (the plant is even in a pot on the ground). Itā€™s our smaller one on the table. If we move it to a counter she finds it. If it goes in a different room she finds it. When we put it outside she finds it. The cat WONT LEAVE IT.


Amazing-Leave-5048

Mine thrive in my daylight basement, I think it is slightly more humid and stays a consistent temperature


waleyhoods

Honestly everyone always says to ignore calatheas and donā€™t make eye contact but Iā€™ve found mine are the exact opposite. Iā€™d check on my medallion every morning,afternoon, and night and call her a pretty girl, she grew huge and happy fast! Spent an unfortunate 3 days in the hospital with my fiancĆ© and came back and she was dead šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


ZenTrainee

It wants humidity, but not wet feet. Likes to be moist, but not wet. Itā€™s not crazy hard if you can give it what it needs. If itā€™s indoors in air conditioning, it will need to be misted regularly or on a dish of gravel with water for humidity. Cool plant if you can grow it. Cut off the dead stuff and try this: https://www.gardenersworld.com/how-to/grow-plants/how-to-grow-calathea/#


RLTaylor9094

Mine looks the same always looks like itā€™s dying


Diligent_Day_253

THE DEVILS SPORN


RavnKensington

Thank you for posting! I cannot keep one of these alive to save my life, but maybe now I can!


brwneygrl

haha! dont make eye contactā€¦ love it! šŸ˜Š


KC14

Check the underside of the leaves for spider mites, this is exactly what happened to my calathea. Then throw it in the trash, I tried for over a year to get rid of them and all I got rid of was my sanity.


-NickG

That is a calathea and what you are doing wrong is owning a calathea.


melclarklengel

Calathea Medallion. It looks very similar to mine, which I got at Kroger back in January. There have been a few periods where I have underwatered mine (thanks, depression), and some of the leaves get brown like this. I trim them off and get back on track with the watering and the plant recovers. Calatheas seem to like their soil a bit moist like a slightly damp sponge. I try not to let it get drier than that for too long. Calatheas also like humidity. Iā€™m (mostly) lucky to have a humidity level of at least 50-60% in my house, and Iā€™ve heard it also helps to group plants together to create a humid microclimate so I have all my calatheas together. I currently have them in indirect light about 10 ft from a SE and W window under a grow light, but seeing some comments here about lightning has me reconsidering and I might move them to better light. For a while I had this plant up against a north window and a couple feet from a grow light that was on other plants, and it was doing really really well. Unfortunately the cat we adopted in June is a plant chewer so I had to move the plant elsewhere. I water my calatheas with either distilled water or, when Iā€™ve recently done a water change, the dirty water from my fish tank. They seem to like the latter. I donā€™t use tap or filtered water on them because theyā€™re sensitive. Right now mine is struggling with spider mites. It actually had a light case when I bought the plant, I just wanted it so much I bought it anyway and treated it. I used Insecticidal Super Soap and it worked perfectly. I recently had a stressful time and underwatered all my plants, and it kind of seems like spider mites took advantage of the plantsā€™ weakened state because half my calatheas now have spider mites. I just sprayed all of the plants in that area down with the super soap yesterday and cut off dead or heavily-infested leaves (or leaves too bitten by the cat sneaking into the room! Thankfully calatheas are not toxic). The plants are looking much perkier today thank goodness. Iā€™ll keep a closer eye and likely spray again soon to be safe. Zooming in on your pics, I canā€™t tell if thereā€™s any spider mite webbing, but I do see some tiny white specks that could be dust buildup or could be evidence of the mites. My plant looked pretty much identical to this yesterday before I sprayed and trimmed. I would recommend treating for mites if you can. I saw a YouTube video long ago in which a woman treated a Calathea Medallion for spider mites. This was before I got mine, but I did successfully use her treatment on my banana tree. If I can find it, Iā€™ll post it here. Best of luck with this beautiful plant! Edit: I found the video! [Here it is](https://youtu.be/PJDLK7Tc8q0?si=26lwhFgqly5v4KM2) This is a cheaper but more time consuming way to treat for spider mites. It did work for me last year on another plant! She calls this plant a Calathea ornata, but thatā€™s a pinstripe Calathea. I also have an ornata, makoyana, and rufibarba quite afflicted with spider mites. I did not ā€œleave room for Jesusā€ between my plants as she suggests, haha! My Calathea musaica, roseopicta, and bigger makoyana and my Stromanthe triostar donā€™t seem to have mites despite cuddling close; I treated them anyway. (Can you tell Calatheas are my favorites? Lol)


purplelephant

Well, not knowing what it is is your first mistake!


Horror_Comparison_47

burn her, she doesnā€™t deserve to be a houseplant, she causes too much stress for people who love plants. she has no mercy and will suicide right in front of you for her own pleasure. trust me, had her before and no matter how hard i tried, she said fuck you and diedšŸ˜”


Johnny_O-ME

First problem....owning a calathea hah


neon_m00n87

I have this plant and I hate it


Cool_cousin_Kris

I had one and she was sooooo dramatic! My Calathea was the hardest plant Iā€™ve ever had.


MsJenX

Use RO water and add some humidity


Diosalove

Yup looks like a caletha. Beautiful plants. They like to be misted daily and like humidity. They need a lot of attention.


Embarrassed_Demand13

I love that plant but itā€™s hard


[deleted]

They are a pain in the ass to keep


catsplants420

What others have said. Also I wouldnā€™t use a terracotta pot for her personally.


GavinsMadre

Calathea's are dramatic šŸ™„


3leggeddogs

Calathea. They hate everything


Catladyyesi

Calatheas need bright indirect light and humidity! That terracotta pot you have her in might be drying her out too quickly. Also use distilled water only.


LooneyLunaGirl

Prayer plant= dramatic water whore šŸ¤£


fliffy8

Mine was gorgeous since I bought her 5+ months ago ā€¦until 2 weeks ago. I think itā€™s an October thing, all my plants go haywire and I donā€™t always know what to do or how to adjust!


MillenialAtHeart

Hey, I just saw this. I have the same plant and the same problem.


xHeartbre_ak_erx

Water it and it should fix itself right up. The crisp will never recover but the other leaves will be fine.


xHeartbre_ak_erx

it needs more water, its so cRisPy "i require MoiSTURe human"


dubsteppahjoe

All my calatheas have just randomly died whereas I've never lost another plant. They're just assholes.


Comfortable-Pea2482

If you grow it in a terrarium, it will never disappoint. In the house? Nope.


FuturePA96

Based on this page, Iā€™ll never get this plant it seems finicky


PigbhalTingus

I have a (different type of) calathea that I've been nursing along ...keeping it alive ...though it sure isn't thriving. That is, until I got a kitten. One who's decided that THIS is the plant he wants to dance all over when he gets the zooms. It's still hanging in there but with half the stalks bent and then straightened back up and made to lean against its monstera friend ...woof. Now it looks like shit. It's been served a series of heavy beat-downs. If it were a horse I'd feed it sugar lumps, take it for one last ride and tenderly blow its brains out.


MrSaphique

Calathea's are know to be drama queens. My neighbours has one that's absolutely gorgeous and mine was fine for a few month and then just died. They like it a bit more shady, so don't put them in straight sunlit but a bit more away from the windows.


joellemelissa

Mine lives in a little greenhouse inside my house. I use cheapish grow lights I got off Amazon. It has a self watering globe that my ADHD allows to be empty for a day or six before I refill it. I just had one leaf die off, but another one started growing right away. There is no right answer. ETA: I also use tap water.


cuntsaurus

I have this same kind of calathea. It's beautiful but I don't get it at all. Thrives randomly, dies randomly.


GreenUpYourLife

And ceramic can also cause damage to plants if used wrong as well. Like root rot and mold. But the best way to combat that is to make sure you have the right type of soil mix for your plant and pot choice. Making sure your soil is chunky and less moisture retentive is a great way to combat root problems with plants that need that specific treatment. These plants need a high moisture content with great drainage and slightly chunky but still pretty moisture retentive soil. They're great plants when in a pot that fits it's root ball with a well draining ceramic pot and bright, indirect light and moisture retentive soil. Keep the soil moist but not sopping wet. So water just about once every 7 to 10 days in the winter. Maybe more if your soil dries out more than an inch deep in the soil each week. The molds that build up can also be inviting for pests so I recommend to treat with systemic granules to combat possible pests. Maybe spray the plant with Neem oil weekly as well to keep spider mites away while it recovers. These treatments also help with mold if I'm not mistaken. I don't feel like double checking the label. I haven't read it in a while.


Skelet0n724

im never getting a calathea after reading those comments. I can stand many things, im ok with rainwater, and some humidity, BUT SPIDER MITES? Hell nahh