I'm sorry you are going through this. Your mom is relying on you as a 2nd parent. It's time to get your own bank account and get your own phone service provider (port the number or change the number completely). As long as she controls your finances and decisions you will ALWAYS be under her control.
I second the sentiment of the first commentor. The first step to liberation is finances. Being under her bank account and her paying your phone bill will always be a way for her to hold things over your head. It will seem overwhelming to take over those responsibilities when you've never had to handle them before but once you start, it'll be like muscle memory. If you need help with starting that process of getting your own account/phone line, you can hit me up and I'll try my best!
I'm sorry you are going through this. Your mom is relying on you as a 2nd parent. It's time to get your own bank account and get your own phone service provider (port the number or change the number completely). As long as she controls your finances and decisions you will ALWAYS be under her control.
I second the sentiment of the first commentor. The first step to liberation is finances. Being under her bank account and her paying your phone bill will always be a way for her to hold things over your head. It will seem overwhelming to take over those responsibilities when you've never had to handle them before but once you start, it'll be like muscle memory. If you need help with starting that process of getting your own account/phone line, you can hit me up and I'll try my best!